The Goddess Durga
The goddess worshipped at the
serene Durga Mandir just outside Princeton, New
Jersey, is the same goddess worshipped throughout
India. She is known as
both a mother and a warrior and is one of the
most ancient of Hindu gods. Durga has continued
until today as a very widely worshipped deity in
many parts of India. Tradition holds that the male
gods created this goddess in order to vanquish a
demon they were unable to control. In some parts of
India and abroad, Durga has been domesticated as the
consort to Shiva, but in others her wild, fierce
aspect is still predominant.
The goddess Durga
is as beautiful as she is deadly. This ‘invincible
one,’ as her name denotes, is indeed formidable, for
in her eight hands she brandishes ancient,
terrifying weapons. In each bloody battle Durga
majestically slays any demon before her; she is the
personification of both power and grace.
This particular goddess is
intriguing because of the contradictions that
converge in her. She is stunningly beautiful yet
bested by no one—no male—in battle. She is a virgin
yet at the same time wife and mother to some of the
most powerful and popular gods in the Hindu system.
This is the only Durga temple in the tri-state area,
and one of the few spaces that feature the worship
of the goddess in the United States.
Since May 2001 the Durga Mandir
has been situated in a compound on Route 27 in New
Brunswick. It is a tranquil place, positioned just
off the road and surrounded on three sides by tall
trees. In front of the main large worship area are
two smaller buildings nearer the street. One is a
community space for dance classes and dining. The
other houses the priests, who are responsible for
the care of the deities and the daily pujas
[worship in which offerings are made] of the
devotees. These three simple buildings look out
across a wide street and expansive parking lot
towards a strip mall—seemingly worlds away.
Within the large main sanctuary,
an immense Durga, dressed in pink and gold, sits
regally atop her fierce tiger. Along the walls, on
either side of the goddess, can be seen half a dozen
groups are other deities, much smaller in stature
than she. Durga dominates this space. The mood
here contrasts with that of other Hindu temples.
Often the atmosphere within a temple is bustling and
exciting, full of activity. The Durga Mandir is
quite different—calm and quiet even at its busiest.
The sexes are about evenly
represented here, and ages run the gamut. There are
plenty of teenagers and children as well as elderly
people actively involved in the rituals—singing,
taking and giving prasad [food retrieved from
the altar and shared with worshippers], and
performing aarti [worship where a flame is
moved in a circular fashion] for the goddess.
Worshipers in the Durga temple come from many parts
of India, but from Gujarat and Maharashtra in
particular. Not all identify themselves as special
devotees of the goddess Durga, but for those who
are, this temple is an especially welcoming space
within the diaspora.